Why?

Most people who bully do it because their own life is rough. That doesn't make it right but you never know how someone's life behind closed doors is. Don't be afraid to speak up and tell on someone bothering you. That person could be bullying many others, and you could be the one to stop it.  A smile can save a life. stay strong everyone💙

School

School started a week ago for me and It's actually going good. If you are having problems go right to guidance or a teacher. There ARE people who care and they WILL help you. Don't be afraid to ask for help. You can do it. Stay strong. Keep your head up 

Don't Self-Harm

Read these alternatives for self-harm. They are actually good ideas. Scars will always be there...

Words Scar, Rumors Destroy, Bullies Kill.

Before you say something to someone, think about how you would feel if they said it to you. Kids are cruel in today's society...and no one seems to realize. Many kids keep it a secret that they get bullied because they are afraid to get help. Counseling and talking to family and friends  is very helpful. They can help you stay strong and overcome bullying! Stay positive! 

Looking for the good In life.

There are man eating sharks in every ocean,but we still swim.

Every second someone in the world lighting strikes, but we still play in the rain. 

Poisonous snakes can be found in 49 of the 50 states, but we still go looking for adventure.

A car can crash, a house can crumble, but we still drive and love coming home.

Because I think deep down we know all the bad things that can happen in life, they can't stop us from making our lives good. 

(Allstate goodlife anthem)

You are Beautiful

Hey you. 

Yes you. Stop being unhappy with yourself. You are perfect. Stop hating your body, your face, your personality, your quirks, just love them. Without those things you wouldn't be you. Why would you want to be anyone else? Be confident in who you are. Smile. Be happy for who you are, and love the person you are. Love your flaws. Love your imperfections. They make you who you are. You are an amazing person and YOU are beautiful. Don't let ANYONE bring you down. Stand up tall and love yourself. Show them that they don't phase you. Make them wonder why you smile. 

Standing Up to Bullies

    Do not be afraid to stand up or speak out. Standing up to bullies can be hard. If you speak up it could really help. A lot of people in your life may not know what is actually going on. Speak up and tell them because they will help. Go to a guidance consoler at school, your mom,dad, sister, brother, etc. People care.

     When you talk about what is going on,  it helps you deal with the problem.
Don't be afraid to look for help. There are always people there for you! You are not alone! Stand up.Speak out. Stay strong. 

•To This Day•

This is an amazing video! You must watch it! It could help you cope. The message coming out if this video is strong! Shane Koyczan is trying to say that even though you might get bullied, we are all beautiful in our own way. We can't let anyone change who we are.

~To this day~

http://youtu.be/ltun92DfnPY

Ways to deal

Some Ways I Deal With Bullying:

•listen to music

•speak up and tell someone 

•find a hobby that gets my mind off things

•talk to my friends,family,teachers (people care) 

Introduction to my blogger

I have been a victim of bullying in my life, as well as many of you. Bullying is not only physical harm but it also consists of mental and verbal harm. When you punch a kid it hurts just as much as calling a kid fat,ugly or worthless. Those words can effect a child for the rest of their life. They will start believing that they are ugly or stupid. It will make them feel horrible inside. Sometimes mental and verbal bullying hurts worse than physical. For example, bruises will go away but the words injected  into a young kids mind will always be there.... forever. I hate seeing people hurt...I know how it feels to want to give up. You have to keep fighting..Everyone in this world is different.It's good to be unique. Lets make a change. This is the generation to change the world....
If you need to talk I am here..email me at:
bullying.ends@aol.com
or
kidscanbecruel@gmail.com

                                                                                           -Stephanie.